Thursday, March 19, 2009

30 weeks already!!!!

Wow,  I am still amazed that I am already at 30 weeks.  Only 10 to go.  Unbelievable.  Well, I will prepare for baby to come around 37 weeks, just in case.  But watch, I'll go beyond 40 weeks this time.  LOL!  I had my midwife appointment yesterday.  Everything was good, blood pressure, no swelling/edema, baby's heart beat was around 152.  Baby is still laying posterior, but again, it is still early, so that is not a huge deal at this point.  I will do some pelvic rocks to try and get baby to flip over.  One thing is for certain, having baby in this position makes for some very interesting, and strong, movements!  I can really feel those little arms, legs, hands and feet!  At some times I push back and I know I am feeling a little hand or foot, I just love it!  I am getting excited to meet this little one.  I laid in bed last night and wondered what this baby looks like, if it is a boy or girl, how big he/she will be.  And it made me very excited to meet him/her!!  It truly won't be long now.

I am sure within the next month or so I will hit the "nesting" mode where I start cleaning everything in sight, and get all the baby stuff out of the attic and washed up and ready.  Tomorrow I am meeting a sweet friend who is giving me some baby girl clothes she is done with.  I am so grateful for that!  I have plenty of boy stuff, but not much girl stuff.  So it will be nice to have some on hand just in case this is a girl.

In about 5 weeks I will see Dr. Wilters for a prenatal exam.  He is the OB I am using as a "doctor of consult" with my midwives.  He is the doctor who delivered Ronnie at Centennial Medical Center, so I already know him and have great respect for him.  My midwives use a doctor of consult just to have someone available if something changes in their clients pregnancy.  My midwives only take low risk women as clients.  So if a pregnancy changes to high risk due to gestational diabetes, or some other issues, then they will no longer work with that client towards a homebirth.  The client becomes the patient of the doctor of consult they are working with and will give birth in the hospital. 

 The only reason I ended up giving birth in the hospital with Ronnie was because he came just 5 days before I was 37 weeks along.  The state law in TN requires that homebirth midwives cannot deliver before 37 weeks.  So I am praying this baby will stay in a little longer than Ronnie did.  I really do want to have my homebirth experience this time.  It would be so great to be able to labor in my own home and have the freedom to get in the tub if I want, to walk around or change positions freely.  No monitors to strap on to my belly, not having to lay on my back to push, and not having a room full of strangers watching me push my baby out.  Just us, with the midwives, at home.  Sounds great to me!

Tuesday, March 10, 2009

29 weeks

This photo is of me with my new found local "crunchy" Christian mama friend Mandy. :)  We met at a park with our kids (and her hubby) this afternoon.  After letting the kids play a bit, we took a nice walk on the trail.  For exercise, and to try to help get her labor started.  She is 40 weeks this week.  And not long after our walk, she posted on Facebook that she thinks her water broke.  So that is awesome and I look forward to hearing her birth story!  She is using the same homebirth midwives that I am using.

So today I am 29 weeks along, and still amazed at how fast this pregnancy is going.  I don't know if I mentioned in my last update that I got heartburn a while back, but I've been taking an herbal aloe vera juice daily (recommended to me by Mandy!) and it has worked!  Lily of the Desert Herbal Stomach Formula. Found at Whole Foods or many health food stores.  Safe for pregnancy and very effective for heartburn.  I highly recommend it to any pregnant mama with heartburn.

I had a prenatal visit with one of my midwives last week.  Baby's heartbeat sounded good, my blood pressure was good, and no edema.  Baby was laying posterior though, and I think he/she still is.  That would explain the very strong jabs all over my belly since baby is facing forward and I am feeling feet, knees, elbows, hands, etc.  Pretty wild!  I am still early enough though to not be concerned about baby's position.  After all, baby is about 2 1/2 pounds at this point, and can move around a lot yet.

I go for my next midwife appointment next week.  I am going every 2 weeks now until I reach 36 weeks, then I'll go every week until baby is born.  The biggest thing I would like to have ready for baby before he/she is born is newborn sized cloth diapers.  I borrowed Kissaluvs size 0 when I had Ronnie, and I loved those!  But I never had a chance to buy any.  A friend is lending me 9 pairs of newborn diapers, but I need more.  So that is my most important goal to try to reach if possible.  And to have some girl clothes on hand just in case this baby is a girl.  I am all set with boy stuff. :)

Speaking of baby's sex, many people have been asking me if I have any feelings about what sex this baby is.  I did with Ronnie, I was certain I was having a boy.  So I was not surprised when he was born to see that he was in fact a boy!  But this time I'm not so sure.  I think part of it is I don't want to guess and be wrong.  I have no idea why I feel I would disappoint myself?? That is dumb, but maybe that is why I've just not thought much about it.  But since everyone assumes this baby is a girl because we have a boy already, I am going to guess that its another boy and they are all wrong!  LOL!!!!

Monday, March 2, 2009

You are glowing!!!

I have heard that comment twice this past week. The first time was from Ron's mom via e-mail after she saw the photo of Ronnie and I (posted below), and the second time was from our pastor at church yesterday. So if two people said it, I guess it must be true! I've always heard that women will have that "glow" about them while pregnant, and I've seen it on others. But I never really paid attention to it myself to see if I have that "glow" going on. I do feel really good, and I really enjoy being pregnant. I know some women have a very hard time with pregnancy; they are sick the whole time, or have other health issues come up. And I feel sorry for them that they are not able to just enjoy this special time of life. I am very grateful to God that I am able to have good health during my pregnancy's and just enjoy this special time of awe and wonder as God creates this precious new life inside my womb.

Psalm 139:13-16

For you created my inmost being;
you knit me together in my mother's womb.

I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made;
your works are wonderful,
I know that full well.

My frame was not hidden from you
when I was made in the secret place.
When I was woven together in the depths of the earth,

your eyes saw my unformed body.
All the days ordained for me
were written in your book
before one of them came to be.